Explaining Men in their teenage years and twenties

We go on a path for as long as we can only to find there is a gap. This gap is massive, and you can't jump over it. You could go the way you came but in the back of you mind you wonder how can I bridge the gap. The gap is inbetween boyhood and being a  man. We are often asked at that age, "So what are you going to do with your life?" Some boys claim they know how to answer but this will not stop the opstacles no matter how small that everyone faces. Some men fall in love so they find their other half to share life with. Some go to college, and they may do well but they may drink alot and find themselve just another drop out. NO real answer is fool proof. we are all fools and in my opinion, the fool and the struggle are beaultiful. THe detours that create new paths the unlikley aquaintance turns into more then a firend and just the moments we have,the few seconds or minutes we have to breathe, and look back are a gift. Are you satifyied in these moments? As a dude I find it helps to pray, and a prayer does not have to be the mona lisa on the wall but just a simple thank you.